Don't Trust a Stranger with Your Email Address
Thursday, June 10, 2010 at 4:18 PM 
We give out our email address to strangers all the time but we feel vaguely uncomfortable doing so. There's often a good reason to do it (such as subscribing to a mailing list), but by giving out our email address we give someone else power over us: power to fill our inboxes with spam, power to waste our attention, power to give our email address to others without our permission. It's uncomfortable because we know, in that moment of trust, that once we give away this power we can't get it back. It's like giving a key to your house to a service professional who's doing a job for you. It's a good reason to give out a key, but will the key be abused? Will copies be made? Will the key be used for something other than that for which it was intended?
In this article I explain how to keep the benefits of sharing your email address while maintaining the power to take it back if it is abused.



